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How Assertive Are You?

Your best friend forgets your birthday, and it really hurts your feelings. How do you react?

You don't say anything but make sure and forget her birthday too!
You ignore it. Everyone makes mistakes.
You confront her about it
You jokingly bring it up
You bring it up - telling her how it made you feel

You're waiting to be seated at a restaurant, and a smaller group that came fifteen minutes after you get seated first. You:

Leave
Tell the hostess that you were there first
Post a bunch of bad reviews of the restaurant online
Make a scene and demand to see the manager
Send them a complaint email when you get home

People at work aren't pulling their weight. How do you respond?

Ask people to do more of the tasks they should be doing
Say nothing, but look for a new job
Tell them they need to ship up or you'll tell the boss
Secretly conspire to get them fired
Schedule a meeting with your boss and voice your concerns

You need to ask a friend for a big favor. How do you do it?

You make your friend feel sorry for you, and you use guilt to get your way.
You tell your friend what you need done, but you don't ask directly.
You ask and offer up a favor in return.
You end up not asking. You're not good at asking for favors.
You come right out and ask. If you get resistance, you point out the favors you've done for your friend.

If a salesperson is pressuring you at a store, you:

Say no and leave quickly
Use it as an opportunity to drive a hard bargain
Buy something but later return it
Subtle insult the salesperson until he's totally humiliated
End up buying something and feeling bad about it later

When it comes to love:

You usually hear "I love you" for the first time after a fight
You have no problem saying "I love you" - once it's been said
You always say "I love you" first, but only when it's timely
You always say "I love you" first, and often a bit too early
It's hard for you to say "I love you"

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